About Ebi

A career built on understanding what work actually costs people.

Speaker, author, and workplace & leadership consultant working with professionals, leaders and organisations navigating difficult workplaces.

Ebi Sheila Diete-Spiff
Perspective

I've watched capable people quietly lose themselves inside their careers.

Before this became my work, it was my life. I built a career while carrying a difficult marriage, chronic illness, and the quiet exhaustion of holding everything together at once. On the outside, I kept functioning. On the inside, I was navigating far more than anyone around me ever saw.

The Turning Point

Work and home were never really separate.
What happens in one follows you into the other.

A full reckoning with my health in 2014 forced me to rebuild — my confidence, my boundaries, my sense of who I was outside of what I produced. That rebuilding became the foundation for everything I now do with professionals, leaders and organisations.

What I Believe

You cannot separate what someone is carrying at home — or inside a difficult workplace — from how they show up and lead.

What I See Differently

It's rarely "just work."

The professional who's suddenly short with colleagues. The manager who's gone quiet in meetings. The high performer who's started missing deadlines. More often than not, it's pressure — from a difficult boss, workplace politics, or a genuinely unhealthy culture — spilling quietly into someone's performance and sense of self.

Ebi Sheila Diete-Spiff
Who I Work With

So much of what we're taught about work — loyalty, hierarchy, endurance, "paying your dues" — was never designed with anyone's wellbeing in mind.

My work is about giving professionals, leaders and organisations the language and strategy to navigate that reality without losing themselves in it.

The Work

Speaking, writing, and working directly with people

Coaching

1:1 & group work with professionals and leaders

Executive wellbeing coaching, The Reset Session, and The WORTHY Woman Blueprint — direct, self-pay support for people navigating pressure, politics and career decisions.

Consulting

Organisational culture & wellbeing partnerships

Working with HR teams and leadership to build wellbeing and healthier culture into how organisations actually run — not as a one-off event.

Writing

Author, Reclaiming Your Worth

A guide for women rebuilding confidence, clarity and self-worth — weaving her Nigerian and British heritage and personal story of reinvention into a roadmap for emotional clarity and self-honouring.

Speaking

Keynotes & leadership conversations

Speaking to leadership teams, HR functions and conference audiences on workplace culture, leadership behaviour and career resilience.

Research

In collaboration with Lodestone™

Bringing an embodied dimension into workplace culture, leadership and burnout prevention — in collaboration with Linden Thorp, founder of Lodestone™. Learn more.

In the Room

On stage, in conversation, and in the work

Ebi Sheila Diete-Spiff
Ebi Sheila Diete-Spiff
Ebi Sheila Diete-Spiff speaking
At a Glance
  • Role Speaker · Author · Workplace & Leadership Consultant
  • Focus Workplace Culture · Leadership Behaviour · Career Clarity
  • Works With Professionals · Leaders · HR Teams · Organisations
  • Formats Keynotes · Coaching · Workshops · Advisory
  • Author Of Reclaiming Your Worth
  • Based In London, United Kingdom
Let's Talk

Bring this thinking to your work or your organisation

Whichever pathway fits — professional, leader, or organisation — the conversation starts in the same place.

Work With Ebi